Men Losing Interest After Sex

What it look like folk? Its ya main square Steez back at ya with some more of the Chronicles. It's a lovely day here in The City of Brotherly Thugs. A bit on the cold side, and the natives are still a little pissed that the Eagles lost. But besides that, its all to the good. So, with that, I think its time to get down to bidness......Shall we?

After a positive response for my Understanding Hoodrats(which I considered to be a heads up for my brethren out there), I decided to do a lil somethin for the ladies. I didn't really know what though. So yesterday a story from this chick at my workplace, about ANOTHER chick at my workplace fell kindly on my ears. Long story short chick b fucked some dude and now he's "acting funny". Of course the womens minds went straight towards him having another female(I know this guy, and that is a very real possibility). But why is that the ONLY possibility? Are women that vain that all problems that arise after intimacy must be some shit with the guy? As a disclaimer, most times they are. But I'm about to break it down to y'all. Some other reasons why your dude is "acting funny" after you gave up the ass. So here it goes......

1. Sex is all he wanted from you. This is the most common reason. Contrary to popular opinion sex is not a sport. Niggas don't want to win the same trophy over and over again. A main that is after the pussy is easily identified, in that he will most likely bring up sex in a very early conversation. This is indication that he wants to get it done quickly and move on ideally.

2. He was disappointed with you sexually. Ladies I know this is a bitter pill to swallow, but all pussy is not good. For various reasons. Too dry, too loose, not knowing how to throw it back...the list is long. But y'all need to check that shit. Just like y'all will dip out on us for being too small or too quick the same can happen to you. Also, this can be directly related to #1. As, a lot of you women, eager for attention will engage in early sex talks, which inevitably turns to shit talking, and both of you end up saying you're gonna do some shit you know you wont/can't do.

3. Fucking you made him feel "pimpish". Now, if you're a pretty aiiiight looking chick(I'm talking 7.5 or better...mud ducks skip to #4) and this guy was able to hit it expending little to no resources, and maybe even got something out of you in the process food, goods, or services. There is a good chance he is feeling pimpish and wants to exercise his pimphand elsewhere. Now in most instances dude is far from a pimp or a mack. So his endevour will undoubtedly fail. If you bide your time he will be back soon enough and thirstier than ever.

4. You are more trouble than its worth. This is mostly applicable to the hoodrats. Think back to your sexual encounter and the events surrounding it? Did your baby father call and threaten your life before or after? Did your children walk in in the middle asking for oodles and noodles and some juice? Did you request that the man stop past your brothers spot for some weed and the foodstamp card? Basically, did you cause the man any unecessary headache? Most men value sanity over sex. Watch yourself.

5. You showed your slutty side too soon. To be clear, yes men like a chick that's down for pretty much anything. But you must also be cognizant of some things when it comes to that first sexual encounter. I know you guys hit the sack with something to prove or maybe hopes of having him "sprung" but once that hoe card is played it trumps all others. Meaning, you can't suck him off, lick his ass, take it in the butt, AND swallow the nut all in the first shot. You gotta take it one step at a time. And the earlier the sexual encounter is in your relationship is, the slower you gotta take it. Ya dig?

Well grasshoppers that's all I have for you guys today. Thanks for reading and use this stuff wisely.

*I'm Steez. And I approved this message*